练习 | FOX新闻:被爱人背叛如何重获信任

练习 | FOX新闻:被爱人背叛如何重获信任

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FOX新闻:被爱人背叛如何重获信任。

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FOX新闻: 被爱人背叛如何重获信任
燕山大学 刘立军 宋葳 编写
◆TRANSCRIPT


Betrayal by a loved one is one of the most painful experiences. If you're thinking of letting someone who betrayed you back into your life, counselor, David Essel says first you must forgive: "If you don't do this you're going to mistrust them, you're going to look for problems when maybe there aren't any, the other big problem you run into is that if this relationship doesn't work out and you want to move on and you haven't forgiven them you're going to put the next person you date on the cross."

Step two is to own your role in the dysfunction of the relationship.

The third step is to have the betrayer write you an apology letter: "So in other words if someone says I'm so sorry for cheating on you, I'm so sorry I stole money from you that's not enough. I want them to write down the specific things they did who they did them with and why. See, that means they're sincere about coming back in and earning back your trust."

Fourth, Essel says if they stole something they must pay you back. If they don't do step three or four, let them go.

With FOX on Love, I'm Ashley Papa.

Adapted from 被爱人背叛如何重获自信

◆VOCABULARY

1.betrayal n. (不可数名词, 可数名词) the act of betraying sb. /sth. or the fact of being betrayed (被)背叛,出卖。例如:
○a sense / a feeling / an act of betrayal被出卖 / 被背叛的感觉;背叛行为
○I saw her actions as a betrayal of my trust. 我认为她的所作所为辜负了我的信任。
○the many disappointments and betrayals in his life他一生中遭受的诸多失望与背叛

2.dysfunction n. (关系、行为等的) 不正常, 异常。 If you refer to a dysfunction in something such as a relationship or someone's behaviour, you mean that it is different from what is considered to be normal.

◆QUESTIONS

Read the passage. Then listen to the news and fill in the blanks with the words you hear.

Betrayal by a loved one is one of the most painful (1) ________________________. If you're thinking of letting someone who betrayed you back into your life, counselor, David Essel says first you must (2) _________________: "If you don't do this you're going to (3) _______________ them, you're going to look for problems when maybe there aren't any, the other big problem you run into is that if this relationship doesn't (4) _______________________ and you want to move on and you haven't forgiven them you're going to put the next person you date on the cross."

Step two is to (5) _________________________ in the dysfunction of the relationship.

The third step is to have the betrayer (6) _________________________________: "So in other words if someone says I'm so sorry for cheating on you, I'm so sorry I stole money from you, that's not enough. I want them to write down the (7) ______________________________ they did, who they did them with and why. See, that means they're (8) ________________________ about coming back in and earning back your trust."

Fourth, Essel says if they stole something they must (9) ________________________________. If they don't do step three or four, (10) _____________________________.

With FOX on Love, I'm Ashley Papa.

◆KEY

Betrayal by a loved one is one of the most painful (1) experiences. If you're thinking of letting someone who betrayed you back into your life, counselor, David Essel says first you must (2) forgive: "If you don't do this you're going to (3) mistrust them, you're going to look for problems when maybe there aren't any, the other big problem you run into is that if this relationship doesn't (4) work out and you want to move on and you haven't forgiven them you're going to put the next person you date on the cross."

Step two is to (5) own your role in the dysfunction of the relationship.

The third step is to have the betrayer (6) write you an apology letter: "So in other words if someone says I'm so sorry for cheating on you, I'm so sorry I stole money from you, that's not enough. I want them to write down the (7) specific things they did, who they did them with and why. See, that means they're (8) sincere about coming back in and earning back your trust."

Fourth, Essel says if they stole something they must (9) pay you back. If they don't do step three or four, (10) let them go.

With FOX on Love, I'm Ashley Papa.


  • 时长:0.9分钟
  • 语速:191wpm
  • 来源:刘立军 宋葳 2018-01-03