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8 Reasons Why Quiet People Are Successful
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8 Reasons Why Quiet People Are Successful
Successful people are often thought of as being talkative and outgoing, but what about the quiet types? Do they have what it takes to succeed? The answer is yes. Those who are more reserved can be just as successful, if not more. Quiet people are often underestimated; they can be viewed as having a lack of confidence or self-esteem. However, they have their own set of advantages, which they can leverage to become successful. Let’s find out what they are.
1. They Listen More Than They Talk, So They Learn a Lot
Quiet people don’t fill every conversation with their own thoughts and opinions, and they certainly don’t feel the need to pretend that they know everything. Instead, they are more likely to take in what others say. They then use that information to formulate an opinion at a later time. When they do speak up, they usually say something interesting or useful, since they don’t like wasting time or effort on things that don’t need much attention. This way, quiet people learn more from each interaction, which can help them be more successful in life.
2. They Can Gain Trust Easily
Quiet people have an advantage when it comes to gaining trust because they don’t overreact to things or wear their feelings on their sleeves. For this reason, people who talk less are often seen as more honest and sincere. They don’t come across as being pushy or aggressive like some other people who are always trying to get their way. And since quiet people don’t feel pressured to fill every gap in a conversation with words, they’re less likely to make blunders during presentations or meetings. Furthermore, they can be trusted with sensitive information, which makes them a valuable asset at work, in business, or in social situations where the goal is to build relationships rather than get ahead at all costs.
3. They Really Think Things Through
A quiet person doesn’t easily fall prey to peer pressure or groupthink. They tend to take their time to analyze a situation before making a decision, weighing the pros and cons of their options. This gives them an edge over those who jump into things without fully understanding the situation or its consequences. Because of this, quiet people have a better understanding of what’s happening and can anticipate problems before they arise. This helps them take action quickly and avoid the unnecessary panic that others experience when things don’t go according to plan. They’re also more patient, which helps them avoid making rash decisions or taking unnecessary risks.
4. They Are Great Planners
Quiet people are often successful because they have great planning skills. They know how to map out their goals and accomplish them efficiently. They think about what needs to be done and how to go about it in order to achieve their goals. They ensure everything is done according to plan, so there is little room for doubt or mistakes. They also tend to be more detail-oriented and analytical, which helps them come up with better solutions to problems.
5. They Have Fewer Distractions
Quiet people tend to be more selective about what they focus on, which means they are less likely to be distracted by other people or things around them. They can focus on a task with single-minded determination and finish it faster than those who talk too much or get distracted easily by their surroundings. Additionally, quiet individuals also have the ability to concentrate for longer periods of time without getting bored or losing interest in what they’re doing.
6. They Are Naturally More Creative
Quiet people may not have the same verbal skills as some of their louder peers, but they often have an abundance of ideas. As a matter of fact, they are naturally more creative and innovative. They’re more likely to spend time alone thinking and reflecting on their thoughts. This gives them a chance to let their ideas develop without distractions. Since quiet individuals use their imagination differently, it allows them to think of new ways of doing things or to improve existing ones.
7. They Are More Likely to Be Self-Reliant
The world is full of people who need constant reassurance and guidance. They depend on others for everything from suggestions for career moves to fashion advice. Quiet people are not like this. They don’t need constant input or assistance from others; they can make decisions on their own. This makes them more independent and self-sufficient; two qualities that are essential for success in most cases.
8. They Let Their Actions Speak for Themselves
Quiet people are often perceived as having more integrity than loudmouths who tend to be seen as overly ambitious and even self-promotional. And that’s because quiet people are more focused on their goals and aspirations than making sure everyone knows what they’re up to. They don’t need to boast about their accomplishments or show off that they’re doing well; they rather let their actions speak for themselves.
As you can see, being a loudmouth or a social butterfly is not necessary to be successful. Quiet people simply have a different approach that allows them to succeed in different ways. In fact, some of the most influential people in history were known to be quiet and reserved. With that in mind, we hope you learned something new today and got inspired to take action on your own goals!
VOCABULARY
1. leverage v. 利用
2. wear one’s feelings on one’s sleeve 情感流露
3. blunder n. a stupid or careless mistake 愚蠢(或粗心)的错误。例如:to make a terrible blunder犯大错
4. groupthink n. (委员会、董事会等对一专题的)集体考虑,集体审议
5. innovative adj. introducing or using new ideas, ways of doing sth., etc. 引进新思想的;采用新方法的;革新的;创新的
6. loudmouth n. (尤指说话内容令人不悦、具冒犯性或愚蠢可笑的)高谈阔论者,夸夸其谈者,胡吹乱侃者 If you describe someone as a loudmouth, you are critical of them because they talk a lot, especially in an unpleasant, offensive, or stupid way.
QUESTIONS
Read the passage. Then listen to the news and fill in the blanks with the information (words, phrases or sentences) you hear.
8 Reasons Why Quiet People Are Successful
Successful people are often thought of as being talkative and outgoing, but what about the quiet types? Do they have what it takes to succeed? The answer is yes. Those who are more reserved can be just as successful, if not more. Quiet people are often underestimated; they can be viewed as having a lack of confidence or self-esteem. However, they have their own set of advantages, which they can leverage to become successful. Let’s find out what they are.
1. They Listen More Than They Talk, So They Learn a Lot
Quiet people don’t fill every conversation with their own (Q1) _________________, and they certainly don’t feel the need to pretend that they know everything. Instead, they are more likely to take in what others say. They then use that information to formulate an opinion at a later time. When they do speak up, they usually say something interesting or useful, since they don’t like wasting time or effort on things that don’t need much attention. This way, quiet people learn more from each interaction, which can help them be more successful in life.
2. They Can Gain Trust Easily
Quiet people have an advantage when it comes to gaining trust because they don’t overreact to things or wear their feelings on their sleeves. For this reason, people who talk less are often seen as more (Q2) ____________________. They don’t come across as being pushy or aggressive like some other people who are always trying to get their way. And since quiet people don’t feel pressured to fill every gap in a conversation with words, they’re less likely to make blunders during presentations or meetings. Furthermore, they can be trusted with sensitive information, which makes them a valuable asset at work, in business, or in social situations where the goal is to build relationships rather than get ahead at all costs.
3. They Really Think Things Through
A quiet person doesn’t easily fall prey to peer pressure or groupthink. They tend to take their time to analyze a situation before making a decision, weighing the (Q3) ____________________of their options. This gives them an edge over those who jump into things without fully understanding the situation or its consequences. Because of this, quiet people have a better understanding of what’s happening and can anticipate problems before they arise. This helps them take action quickly and avoid the unnecessary panic that others experience when things don’t go according to plan. They’re also more patient, which helps them avoid (Q4) _____________________________________________.
4. They Are Great Planners
Quiet people are often successful because they have great (Q5) ______________. They know how to map out their goals and accomplish them efficiently. They think about what needs to be done and how to go about it in order to achieve their goals. They ensure everything is done according to plan, so there is little room for doubt or mistakes. They also tend to be more detail-oriented and (Q6) _________, which helps them come up with better solutions to problems.
5. They Have Fewer Distractions
Quiet people tend to be more selective about what they focus on, which means they are less likely to be distracted by other people or things around them. They can focus on a task with single-minded determination and finish it faster than those who talk too much or get distracted easily by their surroundings. Additionally, quiet individuals also have the ability to concentrate for longer periods of time without (Q7) __________________________ in what they’re doing.
6. They Are Naturally More Creative
Quiet people may not have the same verbal skills as some of their louder peers, but they often have an abundance of ideas. As a matter of fact, they are naturally more (Q8) ____________________. They’re more likely to spend time alone thinking and reflecting on their thoughts. This gives them a chance to let their ideas develop without distractions. Since quiet individuals use their imagination differently, it allows them to think of new ways of doing things or to improve existing ones.
7. They Are More Likely to Be Self-Reliant
The world is full of people who need constant reassurance and guidance. They depend on others for everything from suggestions for career moves to fashion advice. Quiet people are not like this. They don’t need constant input or assistance from others; they can make decisions on their own. This makes them more (Q9) ______________________; two qualities that are essential for success in most cases.
8. They Let Their Actions Speak for Themselves
Quiet people are often perceived as having more integrity than loudmouths who tend to be seen as overly ambitious and even self-promotional. And that’s because quiet people are more focused on their goals and aspirations than making sure everyone knows what they’re up to. They don’t need to boast about their accomplishments or show off that they’re doing well; they rather (Q10) ______________.
As you can see, being a loudmouth or a social butterfly is not necessary to be successful. Quiet people simply have a different approach that allows them to succeed in different ways. In fact, some of the most influential people in history were known to be quiet and reserved. With that in mind, we hope you learned something new today and got inspired to take action on your own goals!
KEY
Read the passage. Then listen to the news and fill in the blanks with the information (words, phrases or sentences) you hear.
8 Reasons Why Quiet People Are Successful
Successful people are often thought of as being talkative and outgoing, but what about the quiet types? Do they have what it takes to succeed? The answer is yes. Those who are more reserved can be just as successful, if not more. Quiet people are often underestimated; they can be viewed as having a lack of confidence or self-esteem. However, they have their own set of advantages, which they can leverage to become successful. Let’s find out what they are.
1. They Listen More Than They Talk, So They Learn a Lot
Quiet people don’t fill every conversation with their own (Q1) thoughts and opinions, and they certainly don’t feel the need to pretend that they know everything. Instead, they are more likely to take in what others say. They then use that information to formulate an opinion at a later time. When they do speak up, they usually say something interesting or useful, since they don’t like wasting time or effort on things that don’t need much attention. This way, quiet people learn more from each interaction, which can help them be more successful in life.
2. They Can Gain Trust Easily
Quiet people have an advantage when it comes to gaining trust because they don’t overreact to things or wear their feelings on their sleeves. For this reason, people who talk less are often seen as more (Q2) honest and sincere. They don’t come across as being pushy or aggressive like some other people who are always trying to get their way. And since quiet people don’t feel pressured to fill every gap in a conversation with words, they’re less likely to make blunders during presentations or meetings. Furthermore, they can be trusted with sensitive information, which makes them a valuable asset at work, in business, or in social situations where the goal is to build relationships rather than get ahead at all costs.
3. They Really Think Things Through
A quiet person doesn’t easily fall prey to peer pressure or groupthink. They tend to take their time to analyze a situation before making a decision, weighing the (Q3) pros and cons of their options. This gives them an edge over those who jump into things without fully understanding the situation or its consequences. Because of this, quiet people have a better understanding of what’s happening and can anticipate problems before they arise. This helps them take action quickly and avoid the unnecessary panic that others experience when things don’t go according to plan. They’re also more patient, which helps them avoid (Q4) making rash decisions or taking unnecessary risks.
4. They Are Great Planners
Quiet people are often successful because they have great (Q5) planning skills. They know how to map out their goals and accomplish them efficiently. They think about what needs to be done and how to go about it in order to achieve their goals. They ensure everything is done according to plan, so there is little room for doubt or mistakes. They also tend to be more detail-oriented and (Q6) analytical, which helps them come up with better solutions to problems.
5. They Have Fewer Distractions
Quiet people tend to be more selective about what they focus on, which means they are less likely to be distracted by other people or things around them. They can focus on a task with single-minded determination and finish it faster than those who talk too much or get distracted easily by their surroundings. Additionally, quiet individuals also have the ability to concentrate for longer periods of time without (Q7) getting bored or losing interest in what they’re doing.
6. They Are Naturally More Creative
Quiet people may not have the same verbal skills as some of their louder peers, but they often have an abundance of ideas. As a matter of fact, they are naturally more (Q8) creative and innovative. They’re more likely to spend time alone thinking and reflecting on their thoughts. This gives them a chance to let their ideas develop without distractions. Since quiet individuals use their imagination differently, it allows them to think of new ways of doing things or to improve existing ones.
7. They Are More Likely to Be Self-Reliant
The world is full of people who need constant reassurance and guidance. They depend on others for everything from suggestions for career moves to fashion advice. Quiet people are not like this. They don’t need constant input or assistance from others; they can make decisions on their own. This makes them more (Q9) independent and self-sufficient; two qualities that are essential for success in most cases.
8. They Let Their Actions Speak for Themselves
Quiet people are often perceived as having more integrity than loudmouths who tend to be seen as overly ambitious and even self-promotional. And that’s because quiet people are more focused on their goals and aspirations than making sure everyone knows what they’re up to. They don’t need to boast about their accomplishments or show off that they’re doing well; they rather (Q10) let their actions speak for themselves.
As you can see, being a loudmouth or a social butterfly is not necessary to be successful. Quiet people simply have a different approach that allows them to succeed in different ways. In fact, some of the most influential people in history were known to be quiet and reserved. With that in mind, we hope you learned something new today and got inspired to take action on your own goals!
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